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In today's rapidly evolving society, many modern women are rewriting traditional social scripts and actively pursuing their ambitions in various aspects of life. However, when it comes to their dating lives, they often find themselves struggling to be proactive without appearing desperate. There exists a delicate balance between expressing interest and safeguarding their personal brand. In this article, we will explore the challenges faced by modern women in their dating journeys and discuss the importance of striking a healthy balance between respect and intrigue. 1. The Thin Line: For modern women, navigating the dating scene can be a daunting task. They constantly face the challenge of finding the right balance between showing interest and avoiding the perception of desperation. Society tends to categorize women, and those aiming for success must be cautious in their love lives to maintain a positive personal brand. This thin line they walk reflects their desire to be seen as assertive and confident while avoiding negative judgments. 2. Battling Stereotypes: One of the difficulties modern women encounter is the expectation imposed upon them by some men. There is an unfortunate tendency for men to view women as conquests, desiring to "put their key in her lock." Paradoxically, if a woman allows this to happen too quickly, she may be negatively judged. This puts women in a challenging position where they feel compelled to assert themselves and not be perceived as a "bimbo." Nonetheless, they also don't want to make it so challenging that potential suitors become discouraged. 3. Seeking the Winning Formula: The modern woman, aware of the intricacies and expectations placed upon her, strives to find a winning formula for dating success. This formula involves striking a healthy balance between maintaining respect for herself and keeping the interest of potential partners. It requires thoughtful decision-making and deliberate actions that align with her values and personal brand. The ultimate goal is to be approachable yet elusive, creating a sense of intrigue and maintaining a level of self-respect. 4. Be Easy to Approach but Hard to Get: A simple rule that can guide modern women in their dating endeavors is to "be easy to approach but hard to get." This approach allows women to express interest in a genuine and open manner, while still maintaining an air of mystery and self-assuredness. By setting boundaries and establishing a strong sense of self-worth, women can attract partners who value and appreciate them for who they truly are. The dating journey for modern women can be a complex and challenging experience. Striving to be proactive while avoiding the perception of desperation requires finesse and a delicate balance. By acknowledging the thin line they walk and battling stereotypes, modern women can redefine dating norms. It is essential for women to seek a winning formula that aligns with their values, strikes a balance between maintaining respect and keeping interest, and fosters genuine connections. By being easy to approach yet hard to get, modern women can navigate the dating landscape with confidence, authenticity, and empowerment.

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Joy is our natural disposition. It is embedded into our DNA. However, there are some people in our lives, that just KNOW how to take away our joy.The truth of the matter is people can actually only annoy  you or make you angry, if you let them.If you really think about it, we choose how we feel [at least we should].We can make the choice on how you react to what people say or do.For some of us, that may be difficult to do. We have allowed the world to have a power over us that is hard to break. Regardless, today is the day we change all that!Today we make a choice! We choose to respond not react.We will maintain a strong grip on your emotions and manage them in a way that will disarm the thieves out there looking to snatch our happiness and peace of mind.From this day forth, we commitment, to the man, or woman in the mirror, to NOT to let ANYONE steal our joy!

1) Friendship: Couples who have a strong friendship have staying power. They not only love each other but genuinely like each other as people. They enjoy hanging out together. They might even consider each other their “best friend.”

I'm positive you've attended an event, and had to watch a guy you were interested in, walk right out the door, without him knowing, you wanted to get to know him.This scenario plays out because it's not traditional for a woman to make the first move. And for many guys, they won’t even approach a woman who doesn’t give him a cue. What this creates in an impasse. He's scared of rejection and you don't believe that it's "lady-like" to approach a man. But, therein lies the rub!So, what can you do about it? Good question! Glad you asked. Here are 2 cues you can employ to make it easy for him to come over and introduce himself.1. Smile. A smile is a great way to nonverbally say "I am open to a conversation". Sounds simple but you'd be surprised how many times you might be wearing a frown and “you ain't even know it”.2. Develop a “come hither look”. It’s a tactful way for a classy woman to make an advance. Webster Dictionary defines a “come hither look” as “an alluring or seductive look or glance”. This look can trigger a man’s innate desire to pursue.I advise my clients to do something I call, "mirror work". Mirror work can be used for multiple things, one of which is practicing your body language. 85% of communication is nonverbal. Before you go out there, it's important to get the right "welcome" down pact (and to make sure that there is nothing between your teeth). :-)

I get asked all the time about the difference between coaching and therapy. In order to create a clear distinction between the two, I'll try to explain here.

My journey to becoming a married man hasn’t been an easy one. I was engaged once before, but never made it to the altar. We tried, but we failed. It wasn’t anyone’s fault. I could throw her under the bus to make myself look good, but that wouldn’t be fair to her. And the way things didn’t work out taught us some valuable lessons, one of which is, don’t point fingers. The others are be self-aware and own up to your own contribution. It’s hard to speak candidly about your own mistakes, but that’s what I tell my coaching clients to do so I have to practice what I preach.

Dear Men Who Text, From a time management stand point, I can see how texting can be a great way to stay on her mind while you handle other business [and for some of us guys, juggle multiple women]. I get it. I've done it too.That is why, I can tell you, from experience, that the thing to be cautious of is, technology doesn't always convey what you are really trying to say, or who you really are, and...on top of that, men and women speak two different languages.See, when texting is your primary means of talking to her, what 'she' gets from you, differs, from your intention. She interprets it as a sign that you don't hold her in high regard. It tells her that she isn't worth your time. It also comes across as if you're selfish. It communicates that you are the type of man who wants something of value, for nothing in return. You want to be intimate without intimacy.You can't get to know someone through texting! You just can't. Quality relationships begin with quality conversation and quality time. Anything else, leads to too much miscommunication.If you are really interested in her, pick up the phone and call her.Sincerely,+ckr

Contrary to popular belief, submission, is for men too.It's impossible to experience love at the deepest level without both parties being submissive.When two people give of themselves it takes the relationship higher. When only one person submits, there will always be a struggle.There was a time I use to think that it was all about the woman submitting to her man, but through study, and experience, I have come to realize that submission is essential for both parties to have a successful union. It takes two!When both parties humble their egos and give up themselves.The ME, and the YOU, disappear, and the focus becomes about "the us".Our personal need to be right, becomes second to doing what is right.By agreeing to be vulnerable to one another, they automatically let go of the fear of being mistreated or manipulated.They surrender to love between them.

From my listening, I have gleaned that the desire to be a mother really affects how most women plan out their lives. Especially in the area of relationships.

On face value, two people can look really good together while fundamentally they aren't compatible on a deeper. Values, mindset, spirituality, finances and personality types all matter when it come to finding the right partner. Compatibility is a prerequisite of a successful relationship.

We learn from trail and error, or information passed down from our parents and teachers [which they got from theirs].Scientists and psychologists are still studying and discovering new information about our species and what we are capable of.